Introducing children to household chores at an early age fosters responsibility, self-reliance, and essential life skills. Research indicates that involving children in chores from a young age contributes to their development and future success*. However, it can be difficult to know when and how to get started.

Toddlers (Ages 2-3)

This is a great time to introduce chores you can do together. Focus on simple tasks like putting away toys, placing dirty clothes in the hamper, and holding the dustpan while you sweep. In my experience, money is still a little too abstract to introduce at this stage, but getting them started with chores now will make things easier in the future.

Preschoolers (Ages 4-5)

It's important to continue with the tasks they learned as toddlers, but you can also introduce additional responsibilities. These could include helping with meal preparation, watering plants, brushing their teeth independently, and putting away their clothes. You might consider introducing a simple form of allowance at this age to help them begin to understand the benefits of saving for a specific toy or treat. We use a digital piggy bank to keep track of the amount our kids earn.

Other Tips for Making Chores a Success

• Consistency is key. Having a consistent schedule for some chores can be helpful. A good example we use is having them brush their teeth right before bed.

• Create triggers. Triggers can help kids know what to do and when. An example is having them clean up their toys after they are done playing, before moving on to another activity.

• Teamwork and modeling. Make chores a team effort and demonstrate how to complete them properly.

• Make it fun! Turn chore time into a game. For instance, try having them toss toys into a bucket to make tidying up more enjoyable and encourage compliance.

• Show appreciation. Acknowledging their efforts will encourage them to continue helping in the future. You can do this verbally, with a hug, or by using a digital piggy bank to reward them financially.

By thoughtfully introducing chores at appropriate developmental stages, parents can equip their children with valuable skills that promote independence and prepare them for future responsibilities.

* Involving Children in Household Chores: Is It Worth The Effort?